Updated: Feb 14
We all want to be loved and deeply connected with another human being. Unfortunately, many of us have been hurt in the past and have difficulty trusting again. Our view of relationships may be jaded, and we might not even realize it. The good news is that there are ways to attract healthy, loving relationships into your life, and they all begin with you.
The Law of Intention and Desire
This law is simple: you get what you desire and intend. If you desire a relationship but don’t put any intention behind it, you probably won’t get very far. To attract healthy relationships, you must first know what you want. Be specific about the kind of relationship you want to attract. Do you want a partner who loves to travel? Someone who is family-oriented? Write down precisely what you want in a partner and get clear on your desires.
The Law of Giving and Receiving
For healthy relationships to blossom, there must be a balance between giving and receiving. You can’t just take, take, take without providing anything in return. What can you give to your potential partner? Love? Affection? Companionship? It’s important to remember that we attract what we put out into the universe. If you want a generous and giving partner, you must also be those things.
The Law of Pure Potentiality
You must believe that attracting healthy love into your life is possible. If you don’t think it’s possible, it probably won’t happen. This isn’t to say that every relationship will be perfect – they definitely won’t be – but if you have the mindset that all connections are doomed to fail, that will happen. You must open yourself up to the possibilities and believe that good things can (and will) happen to you.
The Law of Detachment
This law goes hand-in-hand with the law of pure potentiality. Once you detach yourself from the outcome of attracting healthy love into your life, good things will start happening. When we become too focused on one particular development, we often block other possibilities from occurring. So detach yourself from the outcome and let the universe work its magic.
The Law of Attraction
Last is the law of attraction, which states that like attracts like. This means that if you want to attract healthy love into your life, you must first become a person who embodies healthiness and positivity. Fill your life with things that make you happy – travel, friends, hobbies, etc. When you lead a fulfilling life, healthy relationships will naturally follow suit.
When it comes to attracting healthy love into our lives, it all begins with us. We must know what we desire and put intention behind it; give as much as we take; believe that attracting healthy love is possible; detach ourselves from the outcome, and live our best lives to attract others who are also doing the same thing. Follow these five laws and see how your love life transforms for the better!